South African Dating Service | Singles Men Dating

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South African Dating Service | Singles Men Dating

Valentines day is here again.

South African Dating Service | Singles Men Dating  What are you waiting for? This is a new year and it is your responsibility to take that action. Men, are you still making those wrong decision and looking in the wrong places?  Are you still basing decisions on what other peoples beliefs or think you should have or be involved with?

Make that change now? Do you wish to be in the same place as you are next year, no-one to fill that passion, love, intimacy and have fun, as well as grow old with.

The Only Social Club, is a South African Dating service catering for Singles Men Dating. Are you to busy with work commitments? Have no time for your personal life? Men as you are professional, so too are the ladies. Are you single, divorced and a professional? Fill in the enquiry form online.

Love Soul mate

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Although soul mates can be friends, a relationship or enemies there are 4 stages to attract your LOVE SOULMATE

I attended a workshop by Gabriel Consalves check his facebook for workshops. Be that love magnet.

1. Attraction. You need to be available, open your heart, value yourself, self loving is very important. If you do not love yourself how can you expect someone else to love you. Set the process in motion. If you still have a broken heart then you need to heal your heart to get into that space.

2. Dating. Go out and meet new people, get to know new people, enjoy your life, you need to put yourself out there with every opportunity that you have, anything do in order to bring you and your soulmate together.

3. Commitment. Date exclusively. Do not make an assumption that you are now committed communicate about it and you need to feel comfortable with the person, you want to now open your heart.

4. Soulmate. You will know when that happens. You are meant to be together, and you WOULD WANT TO spend the rest of your life with that person.

 Other ways that you can do in order to attract a love soul mate are:

 1. Read romantic novels

2. See romantic movies

3. Make room for them in your closet

4. Let the universe know

5. Sleep on the one side of your bed

6. Make dinner for 2

7. Enjoy the process

8. Enjoy the moment

9. Enjoy yourself

10. Be yourself

11. Have confidence

12. Inspire

 Ask yourself what is it that you want to get and experience from your love soul mate? Write a description of the person you want? Ask yourself are you those things that you want? Will you date yourself? What are your intentions?

For all single professionals, are you ready to embark on this journey make contact with a professional personalised matchmaking service The Only Social Club We are ready to assist you on this journey.

The next date has nothing to do with the last date

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It’s 2011, and if you’re like me, you’ve already made (and broken) your New Years resolution. Hey, I don’t blame you. I hate working out, too. But if you’ve resolved, in the back of your mind, to make this New Years the last dateless one, I can empathize with you.


Love is important and by joining The Only Social Club or any dating site, you’ve already taken a valuable first step into making it happen. There’s just one problem. You don’t really believe it’s going to happen. You’ve been hurt too many times before. You’ve spent good money on dating but have nothing to show for it.


You’re recent dating experiences read like a rap sheet: Commitment-phobic, picky, boring, emotionally unavailable, narcissist, family issues, issues, etc, etc. You know the deal. And because you’ve had no shortage of dates that made you want to give up entirely, you’ve lost sight of one very important thing:

Take note: The next date has nothing to do with the last date.

That’s right.

Your last partner cheated on you? That has nothing to do with the next one. Your previous online date was a flake? Not the new prospect’s fault. You’ve never had a partner treat you consistently well? How is tomorrow’s date to blame for that? You already know this intellectually. After all, it’s not your fault if your date’s ex was a selfish, vindictive, backstabbing, emotional roller-coaster. But wouldn’t it be awful to go out with a person who truly felt that this is how everyone of the opposite/same sex acted? Who treated you as if you were a criminal, waiting to strike? Whose damage was so deep and walls were so high that you wouldn’t even bother to climb them? Sure would.


You can tell when someone’s been hurt before. He/she questions you as if he’s a prosecutor and you’re the witness – all because he doesn’t want to make the same mistake again. Suddenly you’re not on a date; you’re in an interrogation room. It’s not fair, it’s not right, and it’s certainly not effective. So if you’ve been burned, time and again, literally the ONLY thing you can do is to shake the Etch-a-Sketch clean and give each new date the benefit of the doubt. Assume the best and you’ll receive the best. Assume the worst, and well, you’re probably already doing that.


Your dating resolution this year shouldn’t only be like going to the gym or learning to salsa dance or redoing your bathroom. All I’m asking you to do is believe that there’s a single person JUST LIKE YOU out there who just hasn’t met you yet. And watch as that person responds to the new, positive you.

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