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Interview

The Only Social Club a Dating Service | Corporate Dating interviewed by Kgomotso 567 Cape Talk and Talk Radio 702 on the weekend breakfast, Sunday 9/02/2013 . Kgomotso chose to talk about “looming” Valentine’s Day and talk about

  • The ratio of single men to single women is South Africa is 1 to 10. Why is there such a discrepancy?
  • Why do I see “nerds” dating girls in the “8 to 10” category of the looks department?

I did find it to be an interesting interview. We chatted on the personalised service that I offer and discussed briefly the two above questions,  we then had listeners calling in and sharing there input.

I find we are all on a journey and it is very easy to become despondent and be in a negative space regarding love, relationships, life partner, etc. especially if you have had a bad relationship or never have been in a relationship. My journey has involved,  what are you beliefs? If you believe that there is more ladies and a few men, then that is what you are going to attract. If you believe that there is no one out there for you, then you will not attract your life partner? Remember, there is a big pond out there of singles. Hang out in places or make contact with a service that resonates with your value system. If you are in company with people that gossip and talk negatively and moan all the time, I believe then that is what you are going to attract. You do have choices and you need to take responsibility for those choices. Go inwards and look at areas where you felt that you had failed. Learn from it and look at new opportunities. What action can you take in order to improve those areas? We are all special and unique, love and light.

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Your Valentine’s Day is near

Our beliefs and doing dating differently, join a Professional Exclusive Matchmaking Service. Going back to the 50’s dating and marriage was taken very seriously, no matter what problems arose. Divorce was not taken lightly. In today’s society it is way too easy when a problem arises as so many of us feel and have our own belief system of what a relationship or marriage should be? We then find that we take the same problem into the next relationship and the next and so the cycle continues. If you are unhappy with what is going on in your relationship or with you or if you are still single, the onus is then on you to see what changes you can make in you. It is way to easy to blame and to move away from what is really going on. It could be your own belief system that you had been given to you when you were young and you could be sabotaging your own relationship, friendships etc. We all have choices and we all need to learn and find tools to get our/your relationships right.

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Research

With some research for Personalised professional single matchmaking dating service we found some info, The Imago Theory of Relationships by Cathy Battle.

I have mentioned many times and she too mentions that if you keep on doing what you have been doing, you will always get what you have already got. You have choices, make that decision and do something different

1. Always be open to possibilities regarding change and stop putting people into boxes. Have an open mind; I believe that if you change, others will in turn change. When meeting a new person, be curious about him/her, as if you were going on a holiday and exploring an exciting new destination where you are going to eat different food and expect that it is going to be different from you.

2. Look at your behavior, your thoughts as well as your attitude before focusing on the other person’s faults and what you can contribute to the other person.

3. Write that wish list, the goal sheet of the ideal person/partner. Look at your past relationships and add in the parts that you want to keep and that you do well in and anything new that you could add that could benefit and contribute to the relationship then insert it.

You still doing the same things and getting the same results? Are you ready for change. The Only Social Club is another opportunity, a service to assist and help you wherever possible. The Only Social Club www.theonlysocialclub.co.za is a Personalised professional single matchmaking dating service. Look forward to you making that contact now with the exclusive Corporate single matchmaking service The Only Social Club.

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