Find Your Right Match with Executive Dating

With most professionals spending the greater part of their days at work, there is little room for socialising, instances of unhappy marriages are not entirely unheard of. If you are a working professional looking for the ideal life partner, The Only Social Club can assist with your dream. The Only Social Club, which values integrity and confidentiality above everything, aims to assist you in finding the most compatible match. The active members of the executive dating site, who are single professionals with substance and style, are serious about making commitments, so the executive dating service is solely designed for elite professionals and is focused on building intimate relations which are meant to last. With The Only Social Club, members have the chance to choose their partner from the very best candidates based on their values, personality, education, taste, etc. and personal preferences.

The next date has nothing to do with the last date

with No Comments

The next date has nothing to do with the last date

That’s right. Our Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg and your last partner cheated on you? That has nothing to do with the next one. Your previous online date was a flake? Not the new prospect’s fault. You’ve never had a partner treat you consistently well? How is tomorrow’s date to blame for that? You already know this intellectually. After all, it’s not your fault if your date’s ex was a selfish, vindictive, backstabbing, emotional roller-coaster. But wouldn’t it be awful to go out with a person who truly felt that this is how everyone of the opposite/same sex acted? Who treated you as if you were a criminal, waiting to strike? Whose damage was so deep and walls were so high that you wouldn’t even bother to climb them? Sure would.

You can tell when someone’s been hurt before. He or she questions you as if he is a prosecutor and you’re the witness – all because he doesn’t want to make the same mistake again. Suddenly you’re not on a date; you’re in an interrogation room. It’s not fair, it’s not right, and it’s certainly not effective. The next date has nothing to do with the last date. So if you’ve been burned, time and again, literally the ONLY thing you can do is to shake the Etch-a-Sketch clean and give each new date the benefit of the doubt. Assume the best and you’ll receive the best. Assume the worst, and well, you’re probably already doing that.

Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

 

Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

Your dating resolution shouldn’t only be like going to the gym or learning to salsa dance or redoing your bathroom. All we asking you to do is believe that there’s a single person JUST LIKE YOU out there who just hasn’t met you yet. And watch as that person responds to the new, positive you.

Research

with No Comments

Research

With some research for Personalised professional single matchmaking dating service we found some info, The Imago Theory of Relationships by Cathy Battle.

I have mentioned many times and she too mentions that if you keep on doing what you have been doing, you will always get what you have already got. You have choices, make that decision and do something different

1. Always be open to possibilities regarding change and stop putting people into boxes. Have an open mind; I believe that if you change, others will in turn change. When meeting a new person, be curious about him/her, as if you were going on a holiday and exploring an exciting new destination where you are going to eat different food and expect that it is going to be different from you.

2. Look at your behavior, your thoughts as well as your attitude before focusing on the other person’s faults and what you can contribute to the other person.

3. Write that wish list, the goal sheet of the ideal person/partner. Look at your past relationships and add in the parts that you want to keep and that you do well in and anything new that you could add that could benefit and contribute to the relationship then insert it.

You still doing the same things and getting the same results? Are you ready for change. The Only Social Club is another opportunity, a service to assist and help you wherever possible. The Only Social Club www.theonlysocialclub.co.za is a Personalised professional single matchmaking dating service. Look forward to you making that contact now with the exclusive Corporate single matchmaking service The Only Social Club.