Love Soul mate

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Although soul mates can be friends, a relationship or enemies there are 4 stages to attract your LOVE SOULMATE

I attended a workshop by Gabriel Consalves check his facebook for workshops. Be that love magnet.

1. Attraction. You need to be available, open your heart, value yourself, self loving is very important. If you do not love yourself how can you expect someone else to love you. Set the process in motion. If you still have a broken heart then you need to heal your heart to get into that space.

2. Dating. Go out and meet new people, get to know new people, enjoy your life, you need to put yourself out there with every opportunity that you have, anything do in order to bring you and your soulmate together.

3. Commitment. Date exclusively. Do not make an assumption that you are now committed communicate about it and you need to feel comfortable with the person, you want to now open your heart.

4. Soulmate. You will know when that happens. You are meant to be together, and you WOULD WANT TO spend the rest of your life with that person.

 Other ways that you can do in order to attract a love soul mate are:

 1. Read romantic novels

2. See romantic movies

3. Make room for them in your closet

4. Let the universe know

5. Sleep on the one side of your bed

6. Make dinner for 2

7. Enjoy the process

8. Enjoy the moment

9. Enjoy yourself

10. Be yourself

11. Have confidence

12. Inspire

 Ask yourself what is it that you want to get and experience from your love soul mate? Write a description of the person you want? Ask yourself are you those things that you want? Will you date yourself? What are your intentions?

For all single professionals, are you ready to embark on this journey make contact with a professional personalised matchmaking service The Only Social Club We are ready to assist you on this journey.

DATING: How to end your first date!!

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Dating is fun, but can be stressful. You worry about what to wear, what to say, what not to say… And then, there’s that uncomfortable moment at the end of the date.

Many a good date has gone suddenly wrong in those last few seconds. Perfectly nice people freeze up, freak out and for some strange reason say and do completely inappropriate things at the end of dates, believe me I know I have been there.

I did some research and what I have seen from my members from The Only Social Club, a personalised matchmaking service for professional singles I compiled some simple, common-sense recommendations so that you can avoid those uncomfortable moments and have a perfect goodbye at the end of your next date.

1. Remember these words, “It was nice meeting you.” If it was an awkward date and you’re not interested in seeing the person again, “It was nice meeting you,” is a graceful way to end your conversation.

2. If you want to see the person again, and go on another date, let them know. You already have each others phone numbers, etc… alternatively, if you feel uncomfortable letting the other person know that you wish to see them again let me know at The Only Social Club. (It is a personalised service)

3. It you don’t want to see the person again, never say, “Let’s do this again, sometime,” or something similar. It leads the other person on. Always treat others the way you would like to be treated.

4. Don’t lead someone on. And please do not agree to another date if your intentions are incorrect and then avoid the person’s phone calls.

5. Keep it light. Leave something for the next date.


It definitely takes more than one date to determine if you have chemistry. So, keep an open mind and think about seeing this person again. Remember, if you continue doing the same things you will get the same results.

The Modern Cupid (Meet Theo Malherbe)

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The ‘soulmate search’ has inspired novel after novel, been a long-running theme in film, and dominates many a mainstream. Reality TV tried it-with varying success. But is quitting your job to audition for a place among 24 ‘finalists’ vying for the heart of TV’s most eligible bachelor the only way to secure a date these days.

Simply put not anymore. Redefining the way South Africans search for true love is Theo Malherbe.

When Theo went through all of the dating possibilities himself, he recognised a global need for a service and launched The Only Social Club. It has now been in operation for over 5 years.

It is today one of the fastest-growing and most successful dating and matchmaking service in the country. In the 5 years that he has been in operation Theo Malherbe’s service has changed the way South African singles look for love.

While becoming a modern day cupid is a feat in itself, Theo’s venture has simultaneously catapulted him to entrepreneurial success.

“The Only Social Club is a facility which introduces high-calibre people in a professional manner, where Integrity and Confidentiality are guaranteed, and matches are made to one’s unique specifications,” explains Theo. Remember matchmaking was a big thing in the old days.

“The Only Social Club is not a sex service and no numbers and names game but deals rather in quality relationships. It is an opportunity that has tremendous appeal for many professionals of all walks of life,” insists Theo. He mentions that professionals invest in other areas of there lives why not invest in your personal life.  All matches are done according to ones specifications and remember everyone has a wish list. Do you fit what you are looking for??

“There are many single lonely people, and almost everyone is trying to meet a companion, soulmate or lover. Our aim and mission is to have all members dating and in a successful relationship,” he explains.

“Many members understand how the service works and there are others that want instant gratification, he says, but he mentions that he keeps to the nature of the business and if they want instant gratification they need to then find a service that will then help them. “If we continue doing the same things we will get the same results,” he says. Change your behaviour.

In conclusion Theo says that he has many singles that are now in a successful relationship and some have resulted in engagements as well as marriages. He definitely feels that he has made a difference in many single lives.

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