Dating

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Dating

Communicating to a room full of singles, chances are, at least a few or most of them have tried online Dating. You will find that from most of the responses you will hear similar stories, many felt it feels like a cattle market, they call it now fast food dating and wanted a more Discreet Professional Dating service. They all mention the reasons for online dating is that everyone is doing it and it’s cheap, or even free.  Some even know or have even heard of a couple who have met and got married.

The feedback we have received from singles who have tried Online dating mention that it can be extremely time consuming, frustrating, weird people, married people, and many, many other reasons. They also mention all of which can be expensive depending on which/how many service(s) you use and how many dates you go on before you meet anyone worth seeing whether for a first or for a second time.

It is nearly impossible to make a real, human connection with someone you’ve never met in person. It can be exciting and exhilarating all based on what that person reveals about themselves (assuming that any, some or all of it is true) you can then decide to engage in some kind of communication  Emails, phone calls, SMS or Whatsapp messages. But ultimately, none of it is a substitute for face to face interaction.

You can’t build a relationship with someone through a computer? Not completely.

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Discreet Professional Dating Cape Town | Johannesburg

The Only Social Club cuts the computers out of the equation. Instead of spending hours online sifting through hundreds or even thousands of profiles (the information in which, may or may not be factual), The Only Social Club a Discreet Professional Dating service www.theonlysocialclub.co.za caters for single professionals in Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban and assists professionals who do not have THE time meeting the right quality people. The Only Social Club does the research and search for you and connects you directly with men/women who you’re likely want to date and that match your profile.

The next date has nothing to do with the last date

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The next date has nothing to do with the last date

That’s right. Our Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg and your last partner cheated on you? That has nothing to do with the next one. Your previous online date was a flake? Not the new prospect’s fault. You’ve never had a partner treat you consistently well? How is tomorrow’s date to blame for that? You already know this intellectually. After all, it’s not your fault if your date’s ex was a selfish, vindictive, backstabbing, emotional roller-coaster. But wouldn’t it be awful to go out with a person who truly felt that this is how everyone of the opposite/same sex acted? Who treated you as if you were a criminal, waiting to strike? Whose damage was so deep and walls were so high that you wouldn’t even bother to climb them? Sure would.

You can tell when someone’s been hurt before. He or she questions you as if he is a prosecutor and you’re the witness – all because he doesn’t want to make the same mistake again. Suddenly you’re not on a date; you’re in an interrogation room. It’s not fair, it’s not right, and it’s certainly not effective. The next date has nothing to do with the last date. So if you’ve been burned, time and again, literally the ONLY thing you can do is to shake the Etch-a-Sketch clean and give each new date the benefit of the doubt. Assume the best and you’ll receive the best. Assume the worst, and well, you’re probably already doing that.

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Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

Your dating resolution shouldn’t only be like going to the gym or learning to salsa dance or redoing your bathroom. All we asking you to do is believe that there’s a single person JUST LIKE YOU out there who just hasn’t met you yet. And watch as that person responds to the new, positive you.

Do you go for looks or personality?

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Do you go for Looks or Personality?

What catches your eye first?

We find most of the time for Corporate Matchmaking Service Cape Town | Johannesburg that when looking at a girl or guy looks is what catches the eye and gets most of our attention.  If the personality does not match the looks it can then be off putting. Most of us want someone good looking with an awesome personality. Leave your arrogance at home!! We need to be realistic when falling in love and make sure you fit the same when looking for that ideal life partner. Do you have the good looks and awesome personality?  What are your values? Do you go for looks or Personality?

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We find it is essential to look at the personality as looks do eventually fade. Not saying that you should not go for someone outstandingly good looking.  Communication does play a key when meeting someone and whether an introvert or extrovert it is good to communicate with someone on the same page/level as you in order to bring out your awesome personality.

Leave the alcohol and drugs believe me it is fake I have been there done that and all it does is give you a false belief of who you really are.

Love is special.

Why wait, make that contact now a well established service since 2005 in Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban. The Only Social Club has made a difference in many singles lives. I am truly grateful that I have witnessed some of the weddings.

 

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