Love, Love, Love

Being in love is the most wonderful feeling ever. Do you have a history of meeting the wrong guys/ ladies? Are you addicted to the dangerous men/woman? The Only Social Club Professional Dating Service

When growing up you could have either been exposed to some sort of trauma, abuse or domestic violence. When going into adult life you then find yourself taking on the role of been independent and strong. If you have not worked on the trauma etc. and mend the past as well as forgive yourself, you will then attract someone similar from the type of situation you had been in.

You need to choose not to choose broken people who cannot love you the way you need or want. You need to break that cycle and it starts with you.

You need to look at the problem head on and face the trauma you have experienced whether from a bad relationship, your upbringing, etc. etc. and deal with it. Either deal with it with a therapist who can then unpack it and help you with some tools, do workshops, read self-help books, get a life coach otherwise you will continue with the same cycle. Happiness starts with you first. You need to love and approve of you before someone can love you the way you want them to love you.

Start first by making a list of what you do want. Say to yourself that you want to be in a wholesome, wonderful, committed relationship with the right partner. List the points that you would like form a partner. Do you match those points? Remember it starts first with you.

The Only Social Club is a well-established matchmaking, professional dating service with a history of success, catering to the single professionals. All members are screened and the service has been in operation since 2005.