After going through a break up or a divorce, there are lots of things to think about before you begin to date again. Here’s what helps people succeed in dating after a break up or a divorce. Being positive about … Read More

Spring is here and summer is not far off and hey guys, with regards to some research I did, get ready and it is time to relax and have some fun.  (One word: bikini.)  maybe in the past, dating has seemed … Read More

Theo, One meeting with you, one introduction and one happy ending.  ….., who I first met on Jan 31, and I are getting married at the end of October.  Thank you for a perfect match – we are very well … Read More

Key Points: 1). Communication between partners is the key to a happy, lasting partnership. 2). A partnership will not work if there is contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. 3). Happy partnerships revolve around friendship. 4). As long as you can retain … Read More

1. Hi Theo, Just a quick note to let you know I have seen ….. a couple of times and am enjoying it thoroughly. After a couple of false starts, you came up with someone who is lovely and has … Read More

Being in a committed, long-term relationship is a fundamental human need, and is a way to heal our childhood  wounds and mature both spiritually and psychologically. So the main gist for singles is to avoid relationships that don’t meet your … Read More

We have expectations of our relationship that are shaped by our upbringing, and we may be disappointed if they are not met. Tolerance is a key area and understanding can help you to appreciate your differences, rather than resenting, changing … Read More

I was at a braai on Saturday and the conversation steered to the matchmaking industry. It is interesting to hear what other people feel and think about dating service’s and what came up was the falseness with regards to inter-net … Read More

I have been in the matchmaking industry for almost 4 years and I have met some interesting and amazing people. The question that often comes up when meeting new members is, I just want to meet a normal person. What is your … Read More

We all have choices and we all need to take responsibility for those choices we make. How many times have we said, it was always the other person’s fault and never mine? Most of my my life I always felt it … Read More

It is not always the big issues that bring a relationship to its knees. Often the little everyday things cause more damage. Research has found that four everyday bad habits that if left unchecked can destroy your relationship. Criticism: From … Read More

Some Ideas so that the day is special! Men: Know what they want. Does your loved one yearn for romance in her life? If you can’t think of what to do, remember that you will never go wrong with saying … Read More