Spring is here and summer is not far off and hey guys, with regards to some research I did, get ready and it is time to relax and have some fun.  (One word: bikini.)  maybe in the past, dating has seemed to you more like a chore or at least a challenge, but trust me, if it is done properly, dating can and should be relaxing and enjoyable, and you could meet that one that you wish to share your life with.

The following are a few tips that should get you out there – and successfully dating – this summer.

• Leave the house!  It’s time to admit that she/he isn’t going to find you while you’re sitting on your couch watching summer reruns or surfing the online dating sites.  Find innovative and unusual places to meet people.  Join a club, (why not a personalised matchmaking industry) volunteer or take up a new sport.  Outdoor sport etc. Summer provides a great opportunity to engage in the outdoor activities that you wouldn’t have the chance to do during colder weather

• What, are you blind?  There are many opportunities throughout your regular day to meet someone.  Interesting people are all around us, but most of us are so consumed with out busy lives – ourselves (you know who you are) – that we rarely take the time to notice.  Careful of the ego. So, while it might take a little practice, look up; consciously try to turn your radar on.
• Don’t smirk, smile!  Yeah, yeah, we know – you’re a tough guy – but trust us, this works.  Whether you are at the clubs or the park, be aware, consider flashing your pearly whites once in a while.  Heck, you might even occasionally say hello.
• Embrace your singledom.  Don’t you realize how insanely jealous of you your married friends are?  Think about it:  You have the freedom to do anything you want, mingle and meet everyone you want, and learn new things about yourself and others.
• But pity the playa.  Dating is, and should be, fun.  But it is not about playing games with other people, using clever tactics or making sure you come out on top.  Seriously -pick another summer sport.  Dating responsibly will make it a more enjoyable and less stressful process for everyone.
• Own it. Everyone gets nervous, especially when meeting someone for the first time.  But have faith in yourself, or at least try to fake it until you make it.  Self confidence produces the most amazing results in dating because this positive energy attracts an abundance of people who want to meet them.
• Earn it.  Most people know exactly what they want out of their careers and have a clearly defined set of goals.  But when it comes to finding a partner, it’s often left to chance.  So be proactive.  If you really want to find that special someone, make dating as important as your career.  Getting out there and meeting new people is the perfect thing to put on your Summer “To Do” list.