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A mistake many people make when they’re looking for someone to date is that they don’t first take a good look at themselves.If you’re not emotionally healthy, loving yourself from the inside out, you’ll have a hard time finding someone who is right for you.Get rid of the ego. Check in with yourself, make sure you like yourself, that you know what you want in a partner, and how you see your roles playing out. Then check in with your friends and family and say, ‘This is how I see myself. Is this what you see too? Do I have an accurate picture of myself?’

It’s crucial to first make an assessment of your own personal matters because it’s no good trying to unite two “broken people”.

That said, even if you do have it all together, it can still be difficult to meet someone. However, you have invested in, and hired, a professional matchmaker to help you.

I get to meet with clients face-to-face on a one-to-one basis. I go through a presentation, explaining the nature of the business, and then go through there personal details. My mission is to try and match them up with another member.


The Only Social Club has many success stories to tell.
We don’t do dinner. We want it to be casual with minimum pressure. We want you to sit down and have a drink or lunch.  During this short time you can see if there is chemistry/intrigue/interest.



I always suggest seeing a person at least three times before making the decision to start a relationship.  Remember, if you continue doing the same things you will get the same results, so change the tape recorder!
After each date, feedback is important so that The Only Social Club can see how the date went.  If all went well, ask for that second date, then do dinner.