Feminine and masculine desire simply don’t unfold in the same way – physically or mentally. Research done by Jonti Searll and Marlene Wasserman, they examine our differences.
Between the lust of one and the expectations of the other, couples sometimes have difficulty finding common ground in the bedroom. And while our differences can be what attracted us in the first place, they may cause disharmony later on. Luckily, say the experts, a little understanding is usually all that’s needed to get us shouting vive la difference.
He wants to conquer she wants to be chosen
Female desire is triggered by the impression that she has been chosen above all others.
Men prefer to be the ones that choose.
Women bring up relationship problems.
Men list more physical concerns.
Men make love to feel good.
Women need to feel good to make love.