Dating

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Dating

Communicating to a room full of singles, chances are, at least a few or most of them have tried online Dating. You will find that from most of the responses you will hear similar stories, many felt it feels like a cattle market, they call it now fast food dating and wanted a more Discreet Professional Dating service. They all mention the reasons for online dating is that everyone is doing it and it’s cheap, or even free.  Some even know or have even heard of a couple who have met and got married.

The feedback we have received from singles who have tried Online dating mention that it can be extremely time consuming, frustrating, weird people, married people, and many, many other reasons. They also mention all of which can be expensive depending on which/how many service(s) you use and how many dates you go on before you meet anyone worth seeing whether for a first or for a second time.

It is nearly impossible to make a real, human connection with someone you’ve never met in person. It can be exciting and exhilarating all based on what that person reveals about themselves (assuming that any, some or all of it is true) you can then decide to engage in some kind of communication  Emails, phone calls, SMS or Whatsapp messages. But ultimately, none of it is a substitute for face to face interaction.

You can’t build a relationship with someone through a computer? Not completely.

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Discreet Professional Dating Cape Town | Johannesburg

The Only Social Club cuts the computers out of the equation. Instead of spending hours online sifting through hundreds or even thousands of profiles (the information in which, may or may not be factual), The Only Social Club a Discreet Professional Dating service www.theonlysocialclub.co.za caters for single professionals in Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban and assists professionals who do not have THE time meeting the right quality people. The Only Social Club does the research and search for you and connects you directly with men/women who you’re likely want to date and that match your profile.

Why relationships end are destroyed

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Why relationships end and are destroyed

What are your expectations? Corporate Dating Johannesburg

With your perfect partner do you sabotage your relationships due to unrealistic expectations? Always assuming your perfect partner can read your mind? Lack of communication is one reason why relationships end are destroyed. It is vital in letting your perfect partner understand when putting your point of view across. Remember we all have opinions so do not force your opinions; you both need to find a balance. Try not to be a control freak.

Are you the clingy co-dependent type?

Do you text, call, WhatsApp, all the time wanting to know where your partner is? Do you constantly demand their whereabouts during the course of the day? And always checking their messages and emails? If you have trust issues it could be something that you could be projecting and need to look at. Do not take out your trust issues due to a past experience on the new partner you are dating

Making excuses and not making time for one another?

We all need alone time for reflection, meditation and relaxation. Be careful to not have totally alone time where you do not make time for your partner. You in the relationship and it is important that you focus on the exclusive relationship in order for it to grow. Are you the one too focused only on your career and expecting your partner to understand and accept it? Find the balance between work and your relationship.

Are you in the relationship for the wrong reason?

Thinking a better person will come along. Do you end a relationship before the relationship even begins and grows and not getting to know your partner? We all have positive and negative traits? Do you end the relationship because you only focus on the negatives? Why did you start seeing your partner in the first place? Focus on the positives. Do not compare previous relationships with the new one. However, if you see similar traits then that is understandable it then means you are still doing the same things and getting the same results. It starts with you making the right decision when embarking on a new relationship.

Drugs and alcohol

The two are very toxic when in a committed relationship. Are you only able to communicate when you are stoned or drugged up? Do you use narcotics in order to spice up the sex life? Are you only around people who are regularly drinking and taking drugs? I know I have been in that situation whereby making decisions and thinking everything is cool and then embarking on a new relationship. It is very destructive and can destroy the perfect relationship.

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Corporate Dating Johannesburg in-loveAre these some of the reasons why your exclusive relationships end, destroyed and is happening in your life? This is the time to make a fresh change on the impulsive decisions you make and what you are doing starts with you. Take the chance, you can do it, you are responsible for your own journey and happiness.

The Only Social Club a matchmaking service, for single professionals, well established the leading authority with a history of success and been in operation for over 12 years, and has gone from strength to strength. The Only Social Club has changed the way singles look for love.

Do you go for looks or personality?

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Do you go for Looks or Personality?

What catches your eye first?

We find most of the time for Corporate Matchmaking Service Cape Town | Johannesburg that when looking at a girl or guy looks is what catches the eye and gets most of our attention.  If the personality does not match the looks it can then be off putting. Most of us want someone good looking with an awesome personality. Leave your arrogance at home!! We need to be realistic when falling in love and make sure you fit the same when looking for that ideal life partner. Do you have the good looks and awesome personality?  What are your values? Do you go for looks or Personality?

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We find it is essential to look at the personality as looks do eventually fade. Not saying that you should not go for someone outstandingly good looking.  Communication does play a key when meeting someone and whether an introvert or extrovert it is good to communicate with someone on the same page/level as you in order to bring out your awesome personality.

Leave the alcohol and drugs believe me it is fake I have been there done that and all it does is give you a false belief of who you really are.

Love is special.

Why wait, make that contact now a well established service since 2005 in Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban. The Only Social Club has made a difference in many singles lives. I am truly grateful that I have witnessed some of the weddings.

 

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