You’re attracted – now what? When you make it your intent to simply be present, fears about the outcome disappear. Ask questions – if it’s a sincere question and you really care about the answer. Forget about trying to be cute, to provoke a reaction, or to shock. A few suggestions.
What’s most important to you in your life these days? What’s going on in your life these days? What’s your story? Do you feel like talking? Do you feel like talking to me? Do you feel like talking with yourself? Do you want to have a conversation or do you want to stand and just watch people? Do you want to know what I am thinking right now? Do you want to know what I am thinking about you right now? Do you play tennis/golf/ bridge?
