The next date has nothing to do with the last date

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The next date has nothing to do with the last date

That’s right. Our Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg and your last partner cheated on you? That has nothing to do with the next one. Your previous online date was a flake? Not the new prospect’s fault. You’ve never had a partner treat you consistently well? How is tomorrow’s date to blame for that? You already know this intellectually. After all, it’s not your fault if your date’s ex was a selfish, vindictive, backstabbing, emotional roller-coaster. But wouldn’t it be awful to go out with a person who truly felt that this is how everyone of the opposite/same sex acted? Who treated you as if you were a criminal, waiting to strike? Whose damage was so deep and walls were so high that you wouldn’t even bother to climb them? Sure would.

You can tell when someone’s been hurt before. He or she questions you as if he is a prosecutor and you’re the witness – all because he doesn’t want to make the same mistake again. Suddenly you’re not on a date; you’re in an interrogation room. It’s not fair, it’s not right, and it’s certainly not effective. The next date has nothing to do with the last date. So if you’ve been burned, time and again, literally the ONLY thing you can do is to shake the Etch-a-Sketch clean and give each new date the benefit of the doubt. Assume the best and you’ll receive the best. Assume the worst, and well, you’re probably already doing that.

Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

 

Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

Your dating resolution shouldn’t only be like going to the gym or learning to salsa dance or redoing your bathroom. All we asking you to do is believe that there’s a single person JUST LIKE YOU out there who just hasn’t met you yet. And watch as that person responds to the new, positive you.

Corporate Matchmaking | Dating Service

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Testimonials

The agency a Corporate Matchmaking | Dating Service has recently had another half dozen couples that have met each other through The Only Social Club and with them been introduced it was all to do with timing and are now in a committed relationship.

The Only Social Club is grateful for receiving the following

Hi Theo,

All great this side thank you!
Not sure if D…. has given you feedback, but we have moved in together and are very happy!

Thank you!

Corporate Matchmaking

Hi Theo
I am very well. Thanks for asking.
I met with …. a month ago.
She is a unique individual with whom I feel a great rapport. We are establishing a meaningful relationship.
I am not available for other introductions.
Thank you so much for having introduced us to each other. She has a rare spirit which resonates with mine.
Let’s stay in touch. You have been invaluable and I am happy to provide further feedback as would be useful for you.
Regards

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If you wish to be happy and in the right relationship action is required from your side. If you think it is going to fall in your lap, then keep waiting. The Only Social Club is a Corporate Matchmaking | Dating Service established in 2005, has been in operation for over 12 years, and has gone from strength to strength.

Change

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Change

Professional dating service Cape Town you have met someone and you are now in a relationship. When you first met you were aware of certain areas when you started dating and you may now experience a panic attack because some areas are not to your liking.

Professional dating service Cape Town

You knew he liked his TV when you met him. This is a bad habit of his and now you are upset as he enjoys his sport. Do you prefer to be right or Happy? You made a choice when you met him. Now you want to Change him. You will just make both of you miserable. No one is perfect – everyone can be irritating from time to time in a relationship including you. Find a hobby for you or join him. Real relationships demand honest communication, no matter how painful or how frightening. Try not to control the situation, communicate and find a solution.

Commitment in a relationship is that you are committed to the process of understanding and forgiveness. No one wants anyone controlling them or try to Change them. Do not be in the relationship for the wrong reason.

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Surrender and just love.  Support each other in being the best you both possibly can.

You can Change make contact  a Professional dating service Cape Town.The Only Social Club is for single professionals, www.theonlysocialclub.co.za and matchmaking service. The service established in 2005, has been in operation for over 12 years, and has matched many singles.

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