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What would you ask for if you didn’t put limits on your sense of what’s possible?

A Professional matchmaking service can be of help if you want to meet the man or woman of your dreams, it’s a good idea to know what those dreams are. Do you dream about snuggling by the fire night after night, or are you more drawn to the fantasy of travelling the world together? Do you long for days and nights of non stop lovemaking, or would you sooner spend your free time in intelligent conversation? Or do you want all of the above?

The question “what do you want in a relationship?” requires that you ask yourself those sort of questions. Many singles resist targeting their talent search for winding up with too few possibilities to choose from. Instead they conduct themselves so as to attract the widest possible range of eligible’s – only to discover that they have attracted a whole bunch of people they don’t enjoy spending time with!

1). Many singles when dating aren’t clear about what they want because they fear they could never attain it

2). A matchmaker will help and assist with regards to your life partner. You need to help in clarifying and communicating your wants, it’s useful to paint/write a specific picture, putting yourself and the other in that picture

3). Going after what you really want is more important than whether you actually get it

4). It is good to ask for help in getting in touch with your wants. Ask a friend to remind you frequently to check in with yourself about the question “What do I want right now?”

5). It is important that your wants in the various domains of your life be in alignment with one another

It takes courage to dream – to use your imagination, you will know the loneliness that comes for singleness and being alone is often frightening. You need courage to be a dreamer about your life partner. If you are waiting for your dream partner to drop into your lap – it is the easiest thing in the world to keep sitting there waiting. And the longer you sit, the longer you will wait. You need to take action contact  The Only Social Club provides an opportunity for you in a more personalised manner and it is a personalised matchmaking service. The Only Social Club will look after your needs. It is a discreet service and will get you into the mainstream of dating as well as dating the right partner. The Only Social Club members are professional, committed and want to be in a long term relationship.


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1. Have faith in Dating that your life partner is out there, and you cannot and will not miss him/her.

2. Feel confident and not desperate. Desperation repels!

3. Drop your agenda and live fully in the now.

4. Remember there is no such thing as rejection, only the wrong fit or incompatibility! It is not about you, so don’t take it personally.

5. Focus on the other person if you feel awkward.

6. Quit sweating every phone call.

7. Be gentle with yourself. You’re learning to open up, and be vulnerable.

8. Give your dates a break, they are feeling as vulnerable and awkward as you.

9. Be aware of “the rubber band affect”!

10. Date with freedom – No strings!

11. Make no assumptions. If in doubt, always ask!

12. Be willing to speak your truth and say no lovingly. (you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do – have sex, smoke or other behaviours)

13. Avoid SMS and emails as the main form of communication. They are only complements to communication, but cannot substitute in person communication.

14. Understand that all love grows gradually. (your grandparents were right)

15. Maintain your other commitments with friends, gym, hobbies, spiritual beliefs and everything else you enjoy doing.

16. Take time to pray, meditate, say affirmations, and listen to your heart and what it is telling you about your relationships, dates, etc.

17. Trust! If you are soul-mates, ultimately nothing will keep you apart!

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Questions you do not ask your date

Cape Town Matchmaking
1.  Do I look fat?
2.  What did you look like with hair?
3.  How many lovers have you had?
4.  How much can a partner at your law firm expect to make?
5.  What is your ex like?
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