The next date has nothing to do with the last date

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The next date has nothing to do with the last date

That’s right. Our Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg and your last partner cheated on you? That has nothing to do with the next one. Your previous online date was a flake? Not the new prospect’s fault. You’ve never had a partner treat you consistently well? How is tomorrow’s date to blame for that? You already know this intellectually. After all, it’s not your fault if your date’s ex was a selfish, vindictive, backstabbing, emotional roller-coaster. But wouldn’t it be awful to go out with a person who truly felt that this is how everyone of the opposite/same sex acted? Who treated you as if you were a criminal, waiting to strike? Whose damage was so deep and walls were so high that you wouldn’t even bother to climb them? Sure would.

You can tell when someone’s been hurt before. He or she questions you as if he is a prosecutor and you’re the witness – all because he doesn’t want to make the same mistake again. Suddenly you’re not on a date; you’re in an interrogation room. It’s not fair, it’s not right, and it’s certainly not effective. The next date has nothing to do with the last date. So if you’ve been burned, time and again, literally the ONLY thing you can do is to shake the Etch-a-Sketch clean and give each new date the benefit of the doubt. Assume the best and you’ll receive the best. Assume the worst, and well, you’re probably already doing that.

Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

 

Executive Dating Service Cape Town | Johannesburg

Your dating resolution shouldn’t only be like going to the gym or learning to salsa dance or redoing your bathroom. All we asking you to do is believe that there’s a single person JUST LIKE YOU out there who just hasn’t met you yet. And watch as that person responds to the new, positive you.

Woman’s day

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Woman’s Day

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Happy Woman’s day to all you beautiful woman! Every year on 9 August we celebrate Women’s Day in South Africa and greetings from The Only Social Club an Exclusive matchmaking service. It is a public holiday that pays homage to the women of our nation; – the mothers, the wives, the sisters and the daughters who fought tirelessly against the Apartheid government. We love and salute you!

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The Only Social Club is truly grateful that it has assisted in helping many single women where they are now in a wonderful fulfilling successful relationship. The Only Social Club has face to face meetings with all new members. It is an Exclusive matchmaking Cape Town service www.theonlysocialclub.co.za assures members of our discretion, confidentiality and integrity is guaranteed. The Only Social Club is aware of the sensitivity required when it comes to singles wanting to be on the dating scene, meeting new people with the prospect of finding your soul-mate – that somebody special.** The Only Social Club is an exclusive matchmaking service, well established the leading authority with a history of success. The Only Social Club has been in operation for over 12 years, gone from strength to strength and has changed the way singles look for love.

Do you go for looks or personality?

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Do you go for Looks or Personality?

What catches your eye first?

We find most of the time for Corporate Matchmaking Service Cape Town | Johannesburg that when looking at a girl or guy looks is what catches the eye and gets most of our attention.  If the personality does not match the looks it can then be off putting. Most of us want someone good looking with an awesome personality. Leave your arrogance at home!! We need to be realistic when falling in love and make sure you fit the same when looking for that ideal life partner. Do you have the good looks and awesome personality?  What are your values? Do you go for looks or Personality?

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We find it is essential to look at the personality as looks do eventually fade. Not saying that you should not go for someone outstandingly good looking.  Communication does play a key when meeting someone and whether an introvert or extrovert it is good to communicate with someone on the same page/level as you in order to bring out your awesome personality.

Leave the alcohol and drugs believe me it is fake I have been there done that and all it does is give you a false belief of who you really are.

Love is special.

Why wait, make that contact now a well established service since 2005 in Cape Town, Johannesburg and Durban. The Only Social Club has made a difference in many singles lives. I am truly grateful that I have witnessed some of the weddings.

 

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