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Dating the wrong person

We have noticed in our Dating agency and when out and about the most common conversation that people are always talking about are relationships. Judging by the conversation loads of people around seems like they are in the wrong relationship or the best is they feel the can change the other half or the other half is going to change.

Are you alone in the relationship?

Do you love him/her?

Are the communication lines open?

Do you ask your partner if you are lacking in a certain department?

Do you do a date night?

Do you feel that the other half needs to complete you?

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In order to be in a relationship the most important quality is having a relationship with yourself and you need to be accepting of you. The only person that can change is you, you need to find the tools that work for you. With regards to the other half you either need to accept the other person, however communication does play a big part. Ask when you feel that there are certain areas you do not like, however, it is how you say it. Find the love language that works for him/her you cannot make demand and then expect the other person to change.

We all have needs and we all want to feel wanted and special in a relationship. If you feel your needs are not been met and that you are in the same cycle and doing the same things and getting the same results and the relationship is abusive? Have the courage and make that choice and decision and get out of it. You are unique and you are deserving, You deserve happiness and you need to have that spark and have fun. There is a lid for every pot.

Are you alone, do you feel you are on your own, single in the relationship, or in the wrong relationship? The Only Social Club has your best interests and the service looks after your needs. Are you a single professional looking for a discreet matchmaking or dating service, a professional personalised service then make that move and contact www.theonlsocialclub.co.za fill in a join up form online and we will be in contact.

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Love: The obsessed stage

Love for Singles dating | Personalised Matchmaking Service | Dating Service www.theonlysocialclub.co.za. For singles dating how many times do friends, family etc. point out the faults of the person that we are dating whom we are so obsessed about and we choose not to see the flaws they are raising as we feel at that point that we are so in love. We think that the person that we are with can do no wrong but he/she is the perfect person for us. Every time our friends, family etc. brings these areas that they feel are a problem to our attention we will find all the excuses for him/her. With research I believe that this type of relationship is usually short lived and may last only 2 years.

In this type of relationship you usually feel that you would never be happy unless the two of you were together forever. You tend not to focus on the other things around you, nothing matters, besides the obsessive love you have for him/her

We feel we will have all the solutions to the faults of the areas that family, friends etc. raise and we are that person that can change him/her and make him/her happy.

I do believe that marriages happen at this obsessed stage of love or that couples tend to move into together. What couples tend to forget with these obsessive love relationships there will come a time that you have to work at it in order to sustain the relationship?

Besides working at the relationship change I know comes from within , if you feel you can change him/her you are then in for a challenge.

Are you that person still attracting those people where you see no wrong and always feel that every time you meet someone that you have this obsessive love for him/her. After a period you THEN once again are on your own and on the hunt. Stop looking in the wrong places. Make contact with a Singles dating | Personalised Matchmaking Service | Dating Service www.theonlysocialclub.co.za in order to help asist and find that right him/her that you can then grow old with. It has been said there is the right lid for every pot.

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1. Have faith in Dating that your life partner is out there, and you cannot and will not miss him/her.

2. Feel confident and not desperate. Desperation repels!

3. Drop your agenda and live fully in the now.

4. Remember there is no such thing as rejection, only the wrong fit or incompatibility! It is not about you, so don’t take it personally.

5. Focus on the other person if you feel awkward.

6. Quit sweating every phone call.

7. Be gentle with yourself. You’re learning to open up, and be vulnerable.

8. Give your dates a break, they are feeling as vulnerable and awkward as you.

9. Be aware of “the rubber band affect”!

10. Date with freedom – No strings!

11. Make no assumptions. If in doubt, always ask!

12. Be willing to speak your truth and say no lovingly. (you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do – have sex, smoke or other behaviours)

13. Avoid SMS and emails as the main form of communication. They are only complements to communication, but cannot substitute in person communication.

14. Understand that all love grows gradually. (your grandparents were right)

15. Maintain your other commitments with friends, gym, hobbies, spiritual beliefs and everything else you enjoy doing.

16. Take time to pray, meditate, say affirmations, and listen to your heart and what it is telling you about your relationships, dates, etc.

17. Trust! If you are soul-mates, ultimately nothing will keep you apart!

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