Dating the wrong person
We have noticed in our Dating agency and when out and about the most common conversation that people are always talking about are relationships. Judging by the conversation loads of people around seems like they are in the wrong relationship or the best is they feel the can change the other half or the other half is going to change.
Are you alone in the relationship?
Do you love him/her?
Are the communication lines open?
Do you ask your partner if you are lacking in a certain department?
Do you do a date night?
Do you feel that the other half needs to complete you?
In order to be in a relationship the most important quality is having a relationship with yourself and you need to be accepting of you. The only person that can change is you, you need to find the tools that work for you. With regards to the other half you either need to accept the other person, however communication does play a big part. Ask when you feel that there are certain areas you do not like, however, it is how you say it. Find the love language that works for him/her you cannot make demand and then expect the other person to change.
We all have needs and we all want to feel wanted and special in a relationship. If you feel your needs are not been met and that you are in the same cycle and doing the same things and getting the same results and the relationship is abusive? Have the courage and make that choice and decision and get out of it. You are unique and you are deserving, You deserve happiness and you need to have that spark and have fun. There is a lid for every pot.
Are you alone, do you feel you are on your own, single in the relationship, or in the wrong relationship? The Only Social Club has your best interests and the service looks after your needs. Are you a single professional looking for a discreet matchmaking or dating service, a professional personalised service then make that move and contact www.theonlsocialclub.co.za fill in a join up form online and we will be in contact.