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What is Love

The Only Social Club CC is a Corporate Matchmaking Service | Singles Dating www.theonlysocialclub.co.za which has been in operation since 2005 and looks after your best interests.

Have you recently found yourself out of the mainstream since been divorced, widowed and now single of where to find a suitable professional partner?

We believe that with some research falling in love may feel like a meeting of hearts and minds, some kind of temporary insanity which is driven by hormones, scientists say. Julia Stuart reports.

Love can be divided into three entities: lust, romance and attachment. You can fall in love with someone before you sleep with them; you can become deeply attached to somebody and then fall in love with them; and you can have a sexual relationship, fall in love and then become deeply attached.

Lust is a craving for sexual gratification, which you can feel for a whole range of people. Those caught up in romantic love focus all their attention on the object of their affection. Not only do they crave them, but they are highly motivated to win them, they obsessively think about them and become extremely sexually possessive. Perhaps illogically, if things go wrong. they are attracted to them even more. During this state the brain is driven by dopamine, a neurotransmitter central to the reward system.

Romantic love is much more powerful than the sex drive, says Dr Fisher, of Rutgers University, New Jersey. She believes it to be a drive, rather than an emotion. “It doesn’t have any facial expression, it’s very difficult to control and it’s one of the most powerful neural systems that have evolved,” she says.

The third brain system is attachment – that sense of calm and security you can feel for a long-term partner. It is associated with the hormones, which are probably responsible for the sense of peacefulness and unity felt after having sex. Holding hands also drives up oxytocin levels, as does looking deeply into your loved one’s eyes, massage, and simply sitting next to them.

Make 2014 your mission and goal to find that special person in order to have that special love.

The Only Social Club is catering for your needs it does the Research and Search: We look at values, background, integrity, hidden agendas, needs and desires – key aspects for an individual. This allows us to evaluate the potential for chemistry based on what our clients have told us. All appropriate prospects are interviewed. This assures our clients of no surprises.

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Interview

The Only Social Club a Dating Service | Corporate Dating interviewed by Kgomotso 567 Cape Talk and Talk Radio 702 on the weekend breakfast, Sunday 9/02/2013 . Kgomotso chose to talk about “looming” Valentine’s Day and talk about

  • The ratio of single men to single women is South Africa is 1 to 10. Why is there such a discrepancy?
  • Why do I see “nerds” dating girls in the “8 to 10” category of the looks department?

I did find it to be an interesting interview. We chatted on the personalised service that I offer and discussed briefly the two above questions,  we then had listeners calling in and sharing there input.

I find we are all on a journey and it is very easy to become despondent and be in a negative space regarding love, relationships, life partner, etc. especially if you have had a bad relationship or never have been in a relationship. My journey has involved,  what are you beliefs? If you believe that there is more ladies and a few men, then that is what you are going to attract. If you believe that there is no one out there for you, then you will not attract your life partner? Remember, there is a big pond out there of singles. Hang out in places or make contact with a service that resonates with your value system. If you are in company with people that gossip and talk negatively and moan all the time, I believe then that is what you are going to attract. You do have choices and you need to take responsibility for those choices. Go inwards and look at areas where you felt that you had failed. Learn from it and look at new opportunities. What action can you take in order to improve those areas? We are all special and unique, love and light.

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Change from within

Some key Ideas for Corporate Dating Cape Town www.theonlysocialclub.co.za

With some research we believe that we’re attracted to people who share the same qualities as our parents. (both good and bad).

We can overcome childhood traumas by working through them in our adult relationships.

We like to think we’re self-aware enough to avoid mirroring the downside of our parents’ relationship. But research has discovered, old patterns may have a stronger hold than we realise.

Forming your own relationship blueprint – how to avoid replicating your parents’ mistakes.

  • Listen to your dialogue: does it remind you of your mom or dad? You may unconsciously mimic them, but it doesn’t necessarily reflect how you want to be.
  • When faced with a parental pattern you would like to change, the key mix is awareness (“There’s this thing I learnt to do”) and compassion (“But it’s okay, I can learn to do something else”).
  • Make the weak point of your parents’ relationship your top priority – so if they never argued and suddenly broke up, focus on your communication.
  • Work on your relationship with your parents. Cut the emotional umbilical cord (so you’re more adult than child around them) and you’re less likely to mimic them.
  • Whatever upsets you most about your relationship is likely to be inherited from your parents. Instead of going into battle over this issue (“if you don’t stop doing x, I can’t go on living”), step back and see it as a learning opportunity.
  • Study other people’s relationships – exposing yourself to other blueprints gives you more choice in how you handle your own.
  • Philandering parents are more likely to produce philandering offspring. You’re less likely to fall into this trap if you remember the pain it caused you.
  • If you’ve become critical, dependent or passive-aggressive like one of your parents, try other responses.
  • Understanding each other’s histories can help both partners to heal childhood wounds.

Whatever upsets you most about your relationship it is likely to be inherited from your parents? The research was found in the Aug/Sept 2008 edition of the Psychologies magazine.

I believe if you continue doing the same things you will get the same results. Make contact with The Only Social Club Corporate Dating  and change your behaviour, take responsibility for your life.

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