You still complaining why you have not met that special one. Are you over weight? Well stop complaining, as you can do something about it. Go to the gym, or do some sort of sport and eat healthy. We are living in a world where people do judge. I am sorry to have to say that. Invest in yourself take that plunge, it is easy. One feels so much better about oneself going to the gym or what ever sport interest’s you. An hour a day, you can do it! You will feel better about yourself. You are the most important person. Believe in yourself and have the desire to take care of you. It eventually becomes a way of life in your daily routine.