What is Love
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Have you recently found yourself out of the mainstream since been divorced, widowed and now single of where to find a suitable professional partner?
We believe that with some research falling in love may feel like a meeting of hearts and minds, some kind of temporary insanity which is driven by hormones, scientists say. Julia Stuart reports.
Love can be divided into three entities: lust, romance and attachment. You can fall in love with someone before you sleep with them; you can become deeply attached to somebody and then fall in love with them; and you can have a sexual relationship, fall in love and then become deeply attached.
Lust is a craving for sexual gratification, which you can feel for a whole range of people. Those caught up in romantic love focus all their attention on the object of their affection. Not only do they crave them, but they are highly motivated to win them, they obsessively think about them and become extremely sexually possessive. Perhaps illogically, if things go wrong. they are attracted to them even more. During this state the brain is driven by dopamine, a neurotransmitter central to the reward system.
Romantic love is much more powerful than the sex drive, says Dr Fisher, of Rutgers University, New Jersey. She believes it to be a drive, rather than an emotion. “It doesn’t have any facial expression, it’s very difficult to control and it’s one of the most powerful neural systems that have evolved,” she says.
The third brain system is attachment – that sense of calm and security you can feel for a long-term partner. It is associated with the hormones, which are probably responsible for the sense of peacefulness and unity felt after having sex. Holding hands also drives up oxytocin levels, as does looking deeply into your loved one’s eyes, massage, and simply sitting next to them.
Make 2014 your mission and goal to find that special person in order to have that special love.
The Only Social Club is catering for your needs it does the Research and Search: We look at values, background, integrity, hidden agendas, needs and desires – key aspects for an individual. This allows us to evaluate the potential for chemistry based on what our clients have told us. All appropriate prospects are interviewed. This assures our clients of no surprises.