Dating love at first sight

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If what you think you are feeling when dating  love at first sight it will bring much damage to the brain as you move further along in the relationship. You need to be sick to get it, and when you get it, it will make you sick.

 Have we not all been there? I think it is more lust than anything else.

You can probably relate to love at first sight at some level, especially when you were a teenager. In adulthood, when such feelings have the opportunity to develop into something that may be for keeps you need to understand that there is no such thing as love at first sight.

When it comes to dating do not let your fantasies fool you into thinking you have found something of value just because a person turns your head or makes your heart beat faster. A fast beating heart has nothing to do with love or with anything that will last. If you do not fall in love at first sight it does not mean that the person you meet does not have great value or even lasting potential.

The reason you may feel this about someone could be coming from a lot of sources, and sometimes it is important to find what those sources are. You need to look at the whole package yes it is all fair wanting a Hollywood movie star but you also need to match what you are looking for.

When dating Love is built through soul-to-soul connection, shared values, commitment, resolving conflicts and hurts, tenderness, sacrifice, forgiveness, giving, displays of character, spiritual compatibility, growing and sharing-things that all have something important in common. Love takes time. Anything short of that may be exciting even intoxicating or lead to instant gratification, but it isn’t love.

Real people are where the real things in life are. Date real people not fantasies. Are you still doing the same things and getting the same results are you still single, why not turn to a personal professional matchmaker where there are single professional men and women of various races, cultures, religions, ages, etc, etc who want to date and fall in love and have the right connection with the right person. Take that leap of faith AND why wait, make that decision, not next year, the opportunity is now. Contact  www.theonlysocialclub.co.za and where your love of your life is waiting for you.

Professional matchmaking service

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What would you ask for if you didn’t put limits on your sense of what’s possible?

A Professional matchmaking service can be of help if you want to meet the man or woman of your dreams, it’s a good idea to know what those dreams are. Do you dream about snuggling by the fire night after night, or are you more drawn to the fantasy of travelling the world together? Do you long for days and nights of non stop lovemaking, or would you sooner spend your free time in intelligent conversation? Or do you want all of the above?

The question “what do you want in a relationship?” requires that you ask yourself those sort of questions. Many singles resist targeting their talent search for winding up with too few possibilities to choose from. Instead they conduct themselves so as to attract the widest possible range of eligible’s – only to discover that they have attracted a whole bunch of people they don’t enjoy spending time with!

1). Many singles when dating aren’t clear about what they want because they fear they could never attain it

2). A matchmaker will help and assist with regards to your life partner. You need to help in clarifying and communicating your wants, it’s useful to paint/write a specific picture, putting yourself and the other in that picture

3). Going after what you really want is more important than whether you actually get it

4). It is good to ask for help in getting in touch with your wants. Ask a friend to remind you frequently to check in with yourself about the question “What do I want right now?”

5). It is important that your wants in the various domains of your life be in alignment with one another

It takes courage to dream – to use your imagination, you will know the loneliness that comes for singleness and being alone is often frightening. You need courage to be a dreamer about your life partner. If you are waiting for your dream partner to drop into your lap – it is the easiest thing in the world to keep sitting there waiting. And the longer you sit, the longer you will wait. You need to take action contact  The Only Social Club provides an opportunity for you in a more personalised manner and it is a personalised matchmaking service. The Only Social Club will look after your needs. It is a discreet service and will get you into the mainstream of dating as well as dating the right partner. The Only Social Club members are professional, committed and want to be in a long term relationship.

Dating in South Africa personal matchmaking

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Dating in South Africa  personal matchmaking. We all deserve to be dating a good person – the kind worth keeping – but first and foremost you need to value and like YOU.

 The Only Social Club keeps to the nature of the business and, as a matchmaker, the mission and purpose is to have members in the right relationship with the right person. Dating in South Africa is when we see a negative in someone else, we may see it in ourselves, and it is so easy to identify and look at someone else’s problem areas rather than our own, as we are scared of change. Personal matchmaking – how often have you heard someone say “That’s just the way I am, there’s nothing I can do about it.” It’s tragic that so many people believe that they are incapable of change. I am not saying you should lower your standards or under sell yourself. But if you want certain attributes from another, and you do not fit them yourself and are constantly criticising, then your chance of ever being in a happy relationship is very slim. Progress, growth and change are the order of life. Every seven years every one of the billion cells in our bodies is replaced. Fashion, customs, even the ethical standards of life, change from generation to generation. In fact, the only thing that is constant is the reality of change. When change takes place within us then every other area of our lives starts to fall into place. We are reluctant to accept change because of our “fear of the unknown.”  However, we must learn to accept and welcome change if we are to grow as individuals. Change what is not working for you. Look at your areas where things have gotten in the way of you dating and growing as a person. You might examine what may be keeping love away. Could it be criticism? Feelings of unworthiness? Unreasonable standards? Movie star images? Fear of intimacy? A belief that you are unlovable?

Personal matchmaking

The Only Social Club  has been in the personal matchmaking service for the past 6 years, adding value to people’s live’s. Are you tired of not meeting the right person? Do you want to add value to your life with the right partner? Grow old with someone that is suitable?

Are you ready to join Dating in South Africa and embark on this journey with our personal matchmaking service. My members are professional, committed and want to be in a long term relationship. www.theonlysocialclub.co.za

Be ready for love when it does come. Be loving and you will be lovable. You deserve a good person, and when you are open and ready, it will happen.

Be happy, healthy, and let all that love flow through your heart.”

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