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What is Love

The Only Social Club CC is a Corporate Matchmaking Service | Singles Dating www.theonlysocialclub.co.za which has been in operation since 2005 and looks after your best interests.

Have you recently found yourself out of the mainstream since been divorced, widowed and now single of where to find a suitable professional partner?

We believe that with some research falling in love may feel like a meeting of hearts and minds, some kind of temporary insanity which is driven by hormones, scientists say. Julia Stuart reports.

Love can be divided into three entities: lust, romance and attachment. You can fall in love with someone before you sleep with them; you can become deeply attached to somebody and then fall in love with them; and you can have a sexual relationship, fall in love and then become deeply attached.

Lust is a craving for sexual gratification, which you can feel for a whole range of people. Those caught up in romantic love focus all their attention on the object of their affection. Not only do they crave them, but they are highly motivated to win them, they obsessively think about them and become extremely sexually possessive. Perhaps illogically, if things go wrong. they are attracted to them even more. During this state the brain is driven by dopamine, a neurotransmitter central to the reward system.

Romantic love is much more powerful than the sex drive, says Dr Fisher, of Rutgers University, New Jersey. She believes it to be a drive, rather than an emotion. “It doesn’t have any facial expression, it’s very difficult to control and it’s one of the most powerful neural systems that have evolved,” she says.

The third brain system is attachment – that sense of calm and security you can feel for a long-term partner. It is associated with the hormones, which are probably responsible for the sense of peacefulness and unity felt after having sex. Holding hands also drives up oxytocin levels, as does looking deeply into your loved one’s eyes, massage, and simply sitting next to them.

Make 2014 your mission and goal to find that special person in order to have that special love.

The Only Social Club is catering for your needs it does the Research and Search: We look at values, background, integrity, hidden agendas, needs and desires – key aspects for an individual. This allows us to evaluate the potential for chemistry based on what our clients have told us. All appropriate prospects are interviewed. This assures our clients of no surprises.

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Shy or Introverted

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Have you become one of those people that is shy or introverted after an unsuccessful relationship? Did you get jilted or hurt and decide to back off from subsequent relationships? I am aware at the time that most relationships bring more joy than pain. That’s why we usually find that it is so difficult to give up the relationship. When the relationship has ended we then tend to put out the good memories and only focus and concentrate on the negative/s what he/she may have done that brought you pain or the worst-possible frame on an experience. The idea is that all interactions we have is to change the frame, see the joy, see the gain, and see the growth. Once you can see that, only then is it possible to move on from a positive rather than a negative frame and be empowered to create an even greater relationship in the future. For you to have even a greater relationship, ask yourself what did you learn by seeing this differently? How does this free you to act differently?

We all deserve to be in a wonderful fulfilling relationship. Opportunities may have been presented to you but because you have been focusing on the negatives of the previous relationship you had, you may have missed out and not seen him/her. We all grow and change, embrace the change. Allow yourself the time.

 

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Perfect Relationships

We all strive for the perfect relationship and a good relationship is not always crystal clear. Professional Matchmaking Service | Singles Dating Service and relationships are opportunities to expand our hearts and become more deeply loving. In order to find a beautiful relationship it is always necessary to look at ourselves first, look at what our previous relationships were about and learn from those lessons in order to have a happy wholesome relationship. You need to be aware that you are good enough for a meaningful relationship. If you are not convinced that you are good enough and enough you will definitely have a difficult time accepting someone in your life.

We are a professional, selective and discreet exclusive dating service. We look forward to you making that contact.

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