What is love?

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What is Love

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Have you recently found yourself out of the mainstream since been divorced, widowed and now single of where to find a suitable professional partner?

We believe that with some research falling in love may feel like a meeting of hearts and minds, some kind of temporary insanity which is driven by hormones, scientists say. Julia Stuart reports.

Love can be divided into three entities: lust, romance and attachment. You can fall in love with someone before you sleep with them; you can become deeply attached to somebody and then fall in love with them; and you can have a sexual relationship, fall in love and then become deeply attached.

Lust is a craving for sexual gratification, which you can feel for a whole range of people. Those caught up in romantic love focus all their attention on the object of their affection. Not only do they crave them, but they are highly motivated to win them, they obsessively think about them and become extremely sexually possessive. Perhaps illogically, if things go wrong. they are attracted to them even more. During this state the brain is driven by dopamine, a neurotransmitter central to the reward system.

Romantic love is much more powerful than the sex drive, says Dr Fisher, of Rutgers University, New Jersey. She believes it to be a drive, rather than an emotion. “It doesn’t have any facial expression, it’s very difficult to control and it’s one of the most powerful neural systems that have evolved,” she says.

The third brain system is attachment – that sense of calm and security you can feel for a long-term partner. It is associated with the hormones, which are probably responsible for the sense of peacefulness and unity felt after having sex. Holding hands also drives up oxytocin levels, as does looking deeply into your loved one’s eyes, massage, and simply sitting next to them.

Make 2014 your mission and goal to find that special person in order to have that special love.

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Moaning and gripping

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Moaning and Gripping

Are you one of those still griping and moaning as to why you have not met Miss/Mister right? The Only Social Club a Singles corporate matchmaking dating service Are you the one still getting the wrong advice from friends thinking they have all the answers regarding the man/woman and the type of relationships that you should be involved with?

You are single, divorced or widowed?

The way forward in my opinion is although confiding in friends may take some of the pain away with whatever one is going through at that time. Unless it is a friend that has your best interests all fair and well. I do believe friends sometimes do not always have your best interests. If you wish to buy a car you would then go to a reputable company in order to purchase that car. If you are having problems in relationships confide in someone reputable and it would be wise to consult a therapist or relationship coach.

Thoughts become things. Surround yourself with positive people and do have a positive attitude towards relationships. If you hang out with negative people and if you constantly negative about relationships, the economy, your health etc. etc. in my opinion that is what you are going to attract. I do believe if you hang out with successful people that have a positive attitude towards life in general then you will attract someone with similar and like interests.

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Quick fix

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Quick Fix

Corporate Dating | Professional Matchmaking | The Only Social Club we have met many singles who are looking for a relationship as a quick fix. We too have met many singles who have given up on the dating field. Many singles find it a journey of heartache, frustration, misunderstanding, anxiety and a why bother attitude. Dating leads to opportunities, learning about you, however it also allows you to establish what you want and do not want. Some cultures find the whole dating process a bit taboo. Dating, however plays a very integral part in the Western society.

Too many have this attitude of how can I change him/her. How can I make him/her contribute to the relationship? You need to ask, are you willing to put in the effort to create and manifest the relationship you expect. Do you know what you want or are you settling for less? Are you waiting for a magical quick fix? Many people in general have difficulty with change. If certain things did not give you the results you wanted in the past and if you continue with the same issues/things and are expecting a different outcome. I would then suggest it is time to sit down and evaluate what has transpired in the past and find solutions in order to help you with a positive or different outcome. We all have a past; the past is to help you with what you do not want. Focus on what you do want. Are you that one that has become to comfortable doing things the same way and expecting a different outcome? I find personally if you want change and you want to achieve a different result avoid the drama and follow through with the right intentions and make the right decisions. You have a choice. It is so simple and easy… Is it change you want? Make contact with  Corporate Dating | Professional Matchmaking | The Only Social Club  singles dating and singles matchmaking service. Set goals of what you do want!!!! Align yourself with those goals. Take action in areas that add value to your life.

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