Is it for you? It is not for everyone. But even if you are not ready to commit, the skills you learn when dating will help you to become more confident and present. Dating seems scary when you forget that you are no longer little and fragile. You will survive if someone rejects you.
Style is knowing who you are, what you want to say, and not giving a damn. There is nothing superficial about appearances. Sometimes a dramatic change to our bodies can alter our oulook on life. Appearances matter. 55% of what we respond to takes place visually. 38% of what we respond to is the sound of communication. 7% of what we respond to involves the actual words we say. Dress the part for the part you want. Overdo it and you don’t add value, you end up taking it away. Looking fashionable and youthful is available to anyone, at any age. If you feel confident and attractive, you will radiate confidence and attractiveness. See yourself for what you want to be. Dress to fit the person you are and will be.
Found in the Argus/Sunday Times. Science reveals sure-fire ways to attract a lover. In order for the first date to be a success, forget about the romantic meal:
Let your body do the talking. Body language is far more important than smooth chat up lines. Adopt an open posture (no folded arms) and mirroring another’s posture will help create a feeling of affinity. Where you meet your love/object of desire is crucial because meeting a stranger when physiologically aroused increase that chance of having romantic feelings towards them, according to studies. A high rickety bridge is found to be more sexier and romantic than those who met on a stable one. Going to the funfair and going on the rollercoaster. Going to the movies and seeing a thriller. Laughter is the best medicine. Share a joke together. Humour fosters feelings of closeness between strangers. Music is really the food of love. Many people will turn to so called romantic tunes. They say rock music might be a better idea. The way through to a persons heart is through their stomack. Chocolate works well because it induces feelings of excitement and apprehension. Exercise raise levels of dopamine, another neurotransmitter. Looking into each others eyes brings a feeling of closeness and attraction, than seeing at each others hands.