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Why relationships end and are destroyed

What are your expectations?

Do you sabotage your relationships due to unrealistic expectations? Always assuming your partner can read your mind?  Communication is vital in letting your partner understand when putting your point of view across. Remember we all have opinions so do not force your opinions; you both need to find a balance. Try not to be a control freak.

Are you the clingy co-dependent type?

Do you text, call, WhatsApp, all the time wanting to know where your partner is? Do you constantly demand their whereabouts during the course of the day? And always checking their messages and emails? If you have trust issues it could be something that you could be projecting and need to look at. Do not take out your trust issues due to a past experience on the new partner you are dating

Making excuses and not making time for one another?

We all need alone time for reflection, meditation and relaxation. Be careful to not have totally alone time where you do not make time for your partner. You in the relationship it is important that you focus on the relationship in order for it to grow. Are you the one too focused only on your career and expecting your partner to understand and accept it? Find the balance between work and your relationship.

Are you in the relationship for the wrong reason?

Thinking a better person will come along. Do you end a relationship before the relationship even begins and grows and not getting to know your partner? We all have positive and negative traits? Do you end the relationship because you only focus on the negatives? Why did you start seeing your partner in the first place? Focus on the positives. Do not compare previous relationships with the new one. However if you see similar traits then that is understandable it then means you are still doing the same things and getting the same results. It starts with you making the right decision when embarking on a new relationship.

Drugs and alcohol

The two are very toxic when in a relationship. Are you only able to communicate when you are stoned or drugged up? Do you use narcotics in order to spice up the sex life? Are you only around people who are regularly drinking and taking drugs? I know I have been in that situation whereby making decisions and thinking everything is cool and then embarking on a new relationship. It was/is very destructive and can destroy a relationship.

in-loveIf these are the reasons why relationships end and are destroyed and happening in your life? This is the time to make a change on the wrong impulsive decisions and what you are doing starts with you. Take the chance, and you can do it, you are responsible for your own journey and happiness.

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Do you go for Looks or Personality?

What catches your eye first?

I find most of the time that when looking at a girl or guy looks is what catches the eye and gets most of our attention.  If the personality does not match the looks it can then be off putting. Most of us want someone good looking with an awesome personality. Leave your arrogance at home!! We need to be realistic when falling in love and make sure you fit the same when looking for that ideal life partner. Do you have the good looks and awesome personality?  What are your values? Do you go for looks or Personality?

I find it is essential to look at the personality as looks do eventually fade. Not saying that you should not go for someone outstandingly good looking.  Communication does play a key when meeting someone and whether an introvert or extrovert it is good to communicate with someone on the same page/level as you in order to bring out your awesome personality.

Leave the alcohol and drugs believe me it is fake I have been there done that and all it does is give you a false belief of who you really are.

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The First Date

Have you taken action? Are you still missing out on the opportunities as you are looking for that perfect women or man? No one is perfect, however if that is your choice make sure that you are perfect. Although appearances count it is not everything. Break the mold and take a leap of faith. It is important to write down what you want in a partner.  Gain that confidence and stop being insecure and unhappy with you. You want to be in a relationship that is healthy and to spend quality time with someone that adds value to your life. However, you need to be happy with you first. We all have areas that we could improve on so why not start making those changes now. It starts with you first.

If you are still attracting the same type of person every time you embark on a new relationship and you keep asking why? Then look at it, maybe you have deep seated areas that need to be visited and resolved, see a professional if need be. Write down what you do want and stop focusing on what you do not want.  The more you focus on what you do not want then that is what you will attract and it will continue to present itself. Learn the lesson and make the change.

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What do you want?

Since the start of The Only Social Club in 2005 I have interviewed and met with a diverse range of many single professional members. I find often when meeting with new members they themselves sometimes do not know what they want. Realize your own wholeness. When you have focused on yourself first you can then walk into a relationship empowered.

It is important when investing in a matchmaking service that you do an exercise and write up a list. Write a series of short sentences that describe your deeply satisfying love relationship. Write each sentence in the present tense including the qualities. You work closely with a matchmaker and it helps the matchmaker to get to your goal. BE THE TYPE OF PERSONDo you know what you want? In order to know what you want kindly note that a soul mate is not someone who gives you what you lack, but is a person who can share your life, for whatever period of time.  It all starts with healing the wounds from your past. We can hide and comfort ourselves with food, alcohol, drugs, work, sex, cigarettes, prescription drugs, etc. etc. It is important for you to find the courage and strength to deal with the past wounds as you are deserving, unique and special. Do not allow the past wounds to keep you stuck make peace with it and let go.

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Love, Lust and chemistry

With chemistry the passion has to carry you forward for many years. You may not have immediate chemistry but it may build overtime. Do not go into a relationship where you think you can create the chemistry especially where none currently exists. You and your partner both have to feel it. Photos can be very misleading when it comes to attractiveness. The perfect person is not necessarily perfect for you. Address the issue if you and the person that you have had several dates with do not share the same physical chemistry.

ChemistryChemistry is the rush, the high that we experience when we get together with someone who turns us on. Being in love is the romantic, sexual, turned on love, sometimes even lust. I have found that it is usually the chemistry first that must be present in order for a romantic relationship to exist. You need to ask yourself at the time if the chemistry does exist whether it is the kind of chemistry that will produce and sustain a healthy loving relationship for you.

Chemistry can be very powerful which could lead you without thinking and fizzle out quickly because of the excitement about that person. When choosing a lifelong partner contact a Professional Dating Service The Only Social Club  that has many singles dating with many resulting into marriage. The service has been in operation since 2005.  Choose a partner and look for commitment as well as success then focus on the kind of love that grows slowly, starting with friendship that then develops into a lover relationship to create lasting love.

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Want to find Love?

In order to attract the ideal mate the best thing for you is to be yourself and be realistic about the type of person you want to commit with. You should be looking for the perfect match for you that matches your details and not the perfect person. Living in the ideal world no one is perfect.

11808351-hearts-two-comic-person-man-and-woman-3d-modelLooking for love you want to meet and trust a person that actually exists and lives in the real world. You need to be yourself, be authentic and you never know what may happen. Balance all that is wonderful about yourself with some of the things that are not negative, but more humble or realistic.

Believe in you as there is hope and someone out there that is looking for what you have to offer. Make 2016 the year for you that you meet the person you wish to commit with. Take action and contact a Corporate Dating Service The Only Social Club well established a singles personalised service that is real and assists you.

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Love, Love, Love

Being in love is the most wonderful feeling ever. Do you have a history of meeting the wrong guys/ ladies? Are you addicted to the dangerous men/woman?

When growing up you could have either been exposed to some sort of trauma, abuse or domestic violence. When going into adult life you then find yourself taking on the role of been independent and strong. If you have not worked on the trauma etc. and mend the past as well as forgive yourself, you will then attract someone similar from the type of situation you had been in.

You need to choose not to choose broken people who cannot love you the way you need or want. You need to break that cycle and it starts with you.

You need to look at the problem head on and face the trauma you have experienced whether from a bad relationship, your upbringing, etc. etc. and deal with it. Either deal with it with a therapist who can then unpack it and help you with some tools, do workshops, read self-help books, get a life coach otherwise you will continue with the same cycle. Happiness starts with you first. You need to love and approve of you before someone can love you the way you want them to love you.

Start first by making a list of what you do want. Say to yourself that you want to be in a wholesome, wonderful, committed relationship with the right partner. List the points that you would like form a partner. Do you match those points? Remember it starts first with you.

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DATING GAME  and being in Love

We all love the feeling when on the Dating Game and being in love. The lovely sensational intoxicated feeling that one feels and what a feeling. Be in love with love. How I felt when I was in love, not understanding in my mind as to why or what that meant. Loving you is the first step to start and always love yourself. With total love for yourself is when you discover the beauty and magnificence that you hold within you. You need to love you and to be the person you want in your life. You  will then be fountain of joy and wisdom for all who come into your life. You literally overflow with love and freedom from judgment for yourself and for those around you. When you are in this state, you cannot but be beloved and you cannot fail to see the beauty in all that is around you. What is your end goal?

If the end goal is to find a life partner and be in a loving committed relationship? The Only Social Club a Professional Dating Service wish is to help and assist you in finding and understanding the dynamics of a relationship between mates. Desirable traits are invaluable. However, only when you understand what it really is that you are so in love with, will you know how to become together what you all hunger to know in your daily life.

Personalised Dating Service versus Internet Dating

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The interaction is a face to face contact you have with The Only Social Club with regards to a Personalised Dating Service versus Internet Dating. It allows you the opportunity knowing who you are dealing with and what the nature of the service is all about. Traditional matchmaking services that focus on more natural forms of dating are once again replacing the quick-fix dating apps that gained traction and popularity over the past few years. Instead of clicking and swiping through hundreds of profiles and saying yes to every date, and not knowing who you are dealing with people are taking the time to really understand what kind of person they’re looking for. Confidentiality with regards to your personal details and Integrity is Guaranteed.


Why not approach a Personalised Dating Service versus Internet Dating and seek guidance from a match maker in order to achieve your end goal. Believe it or not, matchmaking is an ancient practice as old as marriage itself. Match makers were thought to be essential advisors and helped people in their communities find true, lasting love.

If you continue doing the same things, well…as they say you will get the same results. Change the dating game.

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Finding The One

We all want that magic formula to finding the one and only. Looking for love in the concrete jungle can seem daunting. We are all unique all have choices and want different things in a partner… Are you putting up walls? Sabotaging your dates? Wanting a relationship but not in one?

In order to find the one and only, timing in my opinion is of utmost importance and being in the right place at the right time. It starts with you. You have to be ready for love in order to find and receive love.

Joining a Professional Dating Service when looking for love and working closely with a matchmaker is a good opportunity.


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