Finding The One
We all want that magic formula to finding the one and only. Looking for love in the concrete jungle can seem daunting. We are all unique all have choices and want different things in a partner… Are you putting up walls? Sabotaging your dates? Wanting a relationship but not in one?
In order to find the one and only, timing in my opinion is of utmost importance and being in the right place at the right time. It starts with you. You have to be ready for love in order to find and receive love.
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Always and Forever
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What or is there a secret formula to an everlasting, happy, long term relationship?
What has been discovered is that what keeps a relationship is mutual vulnerability and that each partner is open to each other. Willing to be curious and to express each other’s needs. (Let down the walls and get rid of the ego).
It is the small stuff, daily acts of kindness, thoughtfulness that sustain a relationship over the long period. Getting rid of the stuff that you need to move on from. Communicate about it so that it does not build into something bigger. Successful couples pulled together during times of stress.
1. Nurture: Find practical and emotional ways to feed your relationship every day.
2. Embrace: Physical contact and sensory intimacy are just as important as sex in the long term
3. Invest: Use plans and habits to keep the spirit of romance alive.
4. Celebrate: Adopt some kind of ritual to mark the passage of time or celebrate special occasions
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Have you let go of the past hurts or do you still bear a grudge towards your ex? I do believe that you have to forgive in order to move on. Write a letter to the person who hurt you but do not send it. Always end the letter in a positive note that you have let go and moved on with your life. Wish them well! (Either burn the letter or tear it up as it is for your benefit). Now that you have decided to forgive you will then be free to move on.
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Falling in love may be one of the greatest feelings ever. When you are with your lover there is no greater feeling in the world, and when you’re not you spend all your time thinking of each other. Falling in love is truly an awesome feeling.
Do you find that you are single and alone in this big fat concrete jungle? Are you too busy and have no time? Do you find dating daunting? You are not alone, you are deserving and you are worth it.
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Love and Sex
Many Singles Dating became irrational when they are sexually attracted to someone. How many times have we seen such people and have tried to warn them, but such warnings usually fall upon deaf ears? In order to have a wholesome relationship with the right person it would be best to wait and see who has proved his or her character. This is common sense, but too many times judgement falls by the wayside when one becomes in Trans by attraction to another. You are worth it and do not confuse love and sex. Get to know him/her first.
Falling in love with sex isn’t always falling in love. We all want to feel “in love.”many of us in all honesty are afraid of being lonely. Sexual attractions can be immediate, but love takes time, because it involves learning.
The past can’t be changed, but you can alter the way you let it. Change is possible. If you continue doing what you have been doing you are going to get what you have been getting. Want a discreet service for Singles Dating www.theonlysocialclub.co.za. You are worth it and deserving. Love could be waiting right here for you.
Happy New Year to you! New Year and new beginnings! I trust that with the old year now behind you, with your profession on track, your finances dancing, is your soul still smiling? Being Single. Maybe you’re not always thrilled with being single. You’re dating and hope to meet someone, someday, to settle down with. That puts you in the majority of single people. You can be happy with your single life and, at the same time, date with the hope of meeting a future life partner. It’s about being happy with different stages of your life, not putting happiness on hold until you find Mr. or Mrs. Right. If you’re dating, it’s very important to remember that one of the most attractive features in any person is happiness.
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We always tend to worry about the past or think about the future. We rarely focus on the present moment. Do not miss the present moment because that is where your life is. In order to access our best lives some fundamental shifts of the heart and mind need to be made. Then trust the laws of nature.
Personal responsibility, self-discovery and creating value is your purpose in the world in order to become the person you wish to become. By blaming others is excusing yourself. Stop blaming others for the current quality or situation in your life. In doing so you are playing the victim.
In order for your life to change you must change. That is where you will grow and it will lead you to your best life ever.
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Moving on after a BREAK UP
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I recently read an article on exes, break ups and our behaviour around it. It reminded me of my own recent break up. The love of my life! The total high when you are in love. I had feelings of total ecstasy.
I did have thoughts though of: am I being true to myself? Have I given the best part of myself away?
To my dismay after a whirlwind of love and romance, agreements were broken, betrayal and a total breakdown in communication. I find SMS and WhatsApp a cop out and that one can interrupt messages how one chooses to read them. It is so easy to hide behind the various social media platforms.
The first two weeks after the breakup I found my thoughts, words and actions were not aligned. I thought I had bipolar. I felt a sense of loss, that emptiness, my emotions were up and down and I wanted to go back for all the wrong reasons. I was not the one that did the betrayal. My behaviour was erratic. This is normal so I hear. I have too heard that this shall pass.
I then eventually made peace with the breakup. I plucked into the resources I knew best in order to heal. With the journey I have been on I have my own tool box of tools in order to help and assist me wherever needed. I needed to go through the pain and all the emotions that I was experiencing. However painful it was I knew I will get through it. I had to look for the opportunity and how I can grow, move on from this and work on myself. I had a huge discomfort with certain feelings; the adult child behaviour came out as well as feelings of rejection and abandonment.
It is now 8 weeks since the breakup. My heart is definitely almost healed. I do love and approve of myself. I still believe in love. I am a total romantic. The path to love is that you will find your love story. The path to love is not about externals. I believe the moment you enter into a relationship or the person you are currently with is a mirror of who you are inside. When you truly find love you find yourself.